The holiday season brings families together around food, laughter, and long-held traditions. Here in Hawaiʻi, those gatherings often come with even deeper moments of connection — time with grandparents, aunties, uncles, and keiki that reminds us just how precious family truly is. But even with this closeness, many ʻohana avoid the conversations that matter most: What will happen when you’re gone? Who will care for the people you love? How will your legacy be carried forward? As uncomfortable...

When you finally decide to put an estate plan in place, it’s natural to feel both excited and relieved. You’re taking a powerful step to protect your ʻohana, organize your affairs, and ensure your wishes are carried out if something happens to you. But what if your spouse doesn’t share that same enthusiasm? Maybe they roll their eyes, insist you don’t need it, or agree to meet with an attorney only to shut it down once they’re there. It can be frustrating, discouraging, or even embarrassing —...

Each November, we pause to honor the courage and sacrifice of those who serve our country. But beyond ceremonies and flags, Veterans Day is also a reminder of something deeply personal — the need to protect the people who stand behind you. In Hawaiʻi, where ʻohana means everything, proper estate planning is one of the most meaningful ways to honor your service and safeguard your family’s future. Why Some Families Need a More Specialized Estate Plan Military and civilian families alike face...